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WHY IS IT SO HARD FOR ME TO LEAVE THIS WEBSITE
leaving home is always hard
That was beautiful.
it’s also pretty hard to escape from hell
That wasn’t as beautiful.
It’s also quite difficult to escape from Klub Ice
SHUT YOUR MOUTH
NO. YOU MUST JOIN KLUB ICE
*ANGRY CAT HISSING*
KLUB ICE IS NICE
This turned from sweet and innocent to fucking Klub Ice
OKAY SO ON THE STREAM MITCH STARTED SAYING HOW JEROME LIKED THIS AND THAT LIKE HE LEGIT SAID “AND HE [Jerome] LIKES THIS AND THIS” LIKE DOES THAT NOT SCREAM MEROME
Wow this is the most disturbing bit of rape culture I’ve seen all day
This is so fucking repulsive this is seriously a fucking tip sheet for abusers holy fuck no
MAKE SURE THEY CRY AND THEN GIVE THEM ALCOHOL AFTERWARD SO THEY THINK YOU STILL LOVE THEM this is fucking disgusting what the FUCK
I think I’m gonna be sick
"Make sure it ends in tears." That’s not love.
"aftercare" is literally grooming your abused, emotionally traumatised partner into a state of comfort so that you can abuse them again
i hate this world
"Rape culture" "abuse" "trauma" ???????? ?? ? ?? ? ???? ? ?
Are yoU FUCKING KIDDING ME?!!? This is a guideline for couples who ENJOY spanking in their relationship, for a wide variety of reasons, like the fact that it’s a KINK!!!!!! IT’S CONSIDERED A PART OF BDSM CULTURE!!!! Notice the very first image says "CONSENTING ADULTS ONLY!!!" THIS IS NOT ABUSE, THIS IS FETISH!!!
THE “AFTERCARE” THAT YOU ARE BITCHING ABOUT IS A **N.E.C.E.S.S.A.R.Y.** PART OF ANY SCENES OR PLAYS THAT A COUPLE PARTICIPATES IN!!! IT’S LITERALLY WHERE YOU TAKE CARE OF AND LOVE ON YOUR PARTNER THAT WAS PUT THROUGH ANY STRESSING ACTS DURING THE SCENE!!!! IT’S A VERY IMPORTANT THING THAT EVERY HEALTHY BDSM RELATED SCENARIO SHOULD END IN!!!!!!!!
OH MY GOD, CAN SOMEONE THAT HAS A MORE EXTENSIVE KNOWLEDGE OF ALL THIS EXPLAIN IT IN MORE DETAIL FOR ME PLEASE?? I AM TOO ANGRY TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO DO IT!!!!!!
Hey hey hey!!!!!! Spanking is not part of rape culture, and if you didn’t see the consenting adults part, we take consent very seriously. Unlike how it was outlined in 50 Shades of Grey, BDSM is actually a very healthy thing if both parties enjoy it and are involved excitedly.
This is considered a fetish, it’s also, for some people, one of the only ways a person can become aroused. Both parties in BDSM scenes and acts are consenting, and trust me we communicate a LOT with our partners. Uncomfortable? Speak up, or say a safe word, we’ll stop. If your partner is acting uncomfortable, nervous, or generally upset, communication is key. If they can’t say the safe word for some reason, make sure you have a hand or head gesture that means “STOP. I AM NOT COMFORTABLE WITH THIS.”
These things are established WAY before anything actually happens in the bedroom.
Also, aftercare. Aftercare is such an important thing. On BOTH ends, because if you’re subbing, you can feel physically hurt, and also a bit rattled, but as a person who has both subbed and dommed, I’ve never felt Abused or terrified of someone, and I came from an abusive home. As a Dom, you can feel stressed or strained and taking care of each other is important.
I know aftercare is probably the best part of anything. It involves a lot of kisses, cuddling, sometimes snacks and drinks. Sometimes a hot shower, but Doms should ALWAYS clean up their sub even if it doesn’t involve a shower.
Welts can be super sensitive for the first few hours, so showers are usually not recommended, however a damp, soft towel and a pain relieving balm is.
As an active Dom and Sub in the BDSM community, I have yet to run into an abusing partner, and I have never been the abuser. BDSM is not rape culture, it is thoroughly communicated and consensual.
And we always perform Aftercare.
God bless you Callum.